Kirsten and Michael had been married for thirty years. On the surface, their life together seemed solid and uneventful. Michael believed everything was fine, but Kirsten felt invisible — emotionally abandoned in a relationship where her needs were quietly ignored. On their anniversary, instead of celebrating, she told Michael she wanted a divorce. His shocked reply: “But I’ve done nothing wrong.” And in her heart, she knew that was the real problem.
Throughout their marriage, Kirsten carried the weight of emotional labor alone. From raising children and working, to battling illness and depression, Michael remained emotionally absent. He never hurt her in obvious ways, but his lack of presence, empathy, and effort wore her down over time. Though she had asked for support and even suggested therapy, he always brushed her off, never truly listening or engaging.
