From a young age, he understood that his surname preceded him, rolling into spaces ahead of his body like a warning sign. His father thrived under attention, breathing it in without effort; he experienced it as something corrosive, best filtered, carefully handled, or sidestepped altogether. Against that brightness, his mother and grandparents built a modest refuge—shared meals at home instead of formal receptions, a second language that offered shelter from prying ears, and the quiet assurance that another passport meant another possible path.
When his grandmother passed, the public devoured the photographs while he carried the grief. What should have been a private farewell became a display, his mourning reshaped into content. With so little left that he could claim as his own, he chose withdrawal. In a society that equates exposure with value, he has opted for rarity, allowing absence to speak for him—to say that he is not a narrative for consumption, but a human being still figuring out who he is.