A young woman\u2019s trip with her in-laws doesn\u2019t go as planned. Faced with judgments about her background and manners, she makes a choice with big consequences.<\/p>\n
I (F26) went on a family trip with my in-laws two weeks ago. My mother-in-law always thinks I\u2019m \u201cignorant\u201d and \u201cuncultured\u201d because I come from a lower-class family compared to hers, and she believes I have no manners.<\/p>\n
When we got to the hotel, they planned a dinner at a fancy restaurant. My husband didn\u2019t tell me about it until the last minute when he was already dressed and ready. When I asked where he was going, he said he and his family were going out for dinner, but I wasn\u2019t invited.<\/p>\n
His reason? His mom assumed that I wouldn\u2019t know how to handle the food or act properly at such a place, so she thought it was better if I stayed at the hotel and ate there instead. I didn\u2019t argue; I let him leave, packed my bags, and caught the first flight home.<\/p>\n
When my husband found out I had left, he was furious and called me nonstop. He said I was being unreasonable and ungrateful and that I had embarrassed him in front of his family, even though he had begged me to join the trip. When he got home, he gave me the silent treatment. His family also made indirect comments about me on Facebook.<\/p>\n
What people think online:<\/p>\n
It\u2019s offensive for your husband and his family to exclude you from this dinner. Their reason for doing so is atrocious. It\u2019s even worse for him not to inform you in advance that he\u2019d be having dinner without you. That your husband doesn\u2019t understand why his behavior and his family\u2019s behavior is completely unacceptable.<\/p>\n
His family isn\u2019t nice, but he didn\u2019t defend you when his mother said such atrocities? He actually thinks his mother is right, and you don\u2019t belong there. Get out, now, fast, and find yourself someone who appreciates you.<\/p>\n
Wow! When it comes to world-class rudeness, this one is right up there. Does your husband even like you???<\/p>\n
It sounds like you have a husband problem. Did he go along with you not being included in going to dinner? That is incredibly rude and disrespectful. He didn\u2019t defend you. He could have declined the dinner invitation and gone out with you instead.
\nIf you want this relationship to last, you both need to go to counselling to learn communication and boundaries. He also has to grow a spine to deal with his mother.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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