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She felt torn and desperate to uncover the truth.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI\u2019ve been a loyal reader for many years. I\u2019ve often offered advice to others, but now it\u2019s my turn to share.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI divorced when my son, Josh, was just 4 years old. Since then, my ex-husband has been absent, leaving a void that no amount of love could fill. It breaks my heart that Josh is growing up without a father figure. No matter how much love and care I give him, I see the longing in his eyes as he watches his friends enjoy weekends with their dads \u2014 fishing, playing ball, or just sharing laughs over dinner. It\u2019s a constant reminder of what he\u2019s missing.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI\u2019ve considered dating again, hoping Josh could have a stepfather or positive male role model. But each time, I\u2019m flooded with betrayal and heartache from my past marriage. The wounds run deep, and I\u2019ve lost faith in love and trust. 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