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I\u2019ve been married to my husband Paul for 15 years. I have an 18-year-old son, Jude, from a previous relationship, and Paul has a teenage son from his first marriage.<\/p>\n

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Jude will start college this year, but my husband Paul refuses to pay his tuition. Instead, he wants to spend money on a car for his son\u2019s 16th birthday.<\/p>\n

I said that spoiling his own son with a car at 16 isn\u2019t that necessary but my son\u2019s education is crucial. I then reminded his that my son has the same rights as his son.<\/p>\n

Paul smirked and then declared, \u201cDon\u2019t forget that your son\u2019s father is a lazy man who never worked a day in his life.\u201d
\nHe then added, \u201cdon\u2019t expect me to deprive my own son of nice gifts just because your son\u2019s dad won\u2019t step up and take his duties as a father seriously.\u201d<\/p>\n

To my disappointment, he declared \u201cEven though I love him, Jude is no longer my responsibility now that he is 18\u201d<\/p>\n

I am crushed by my husband\u2019s behavior, especially since he\u2019s always been a good father figure for my son.
\nHow should I handle this situation?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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