Our daughter is 13. We raise her like a princess: we don\u2019t make her do the dishes, wash and clean, and we give her a lot of freedom. Pink hair, a tiny nose piercing, the most fashionable clothes \u2014 no problem. We\u2019ve always believed that self-expression is important, and we wanted her to grow up feeling supported and free.<\/p>\n
One afternoon, she came home from a new friend\u2019s house practically glowing with excitement. \u201cMom! Dad! You won\u2019t believe how amazing their family is!\u201d she said, throwing her backpack onto the couch. She went on to describe how her friend\u2019s parents had clear routines for everything. Every family member, including her friend, had responsibilities. They cooked together, cleaned up together, and even had a weekly \u201cfamily meeting\u201d where everyone shared thoughts and ideas.<\/p>\n
She explained, almost breathless, how her friend had her own weekly chore list, helped make dinner, and even baked bread with her dad every Sunday. \u201cIt was so fun,\u201d she said. \u201cThey all work together. I even helped clear the table after dinner. It felt\u2026 nice.\u201d We listened quietly, surprised. She had always been our free-spirited girl, but this excitement was something new. That night, after she went to bed, my husband and I sat in the kitchen talking for hours. We realized that maybe, in trying to give her everything, we\u2019d forgotten to give her something equally important: a sense of contribution and shared responsibility.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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