Just returned from a work trip, I had a day off. I caught up on housework, pleased to be home.
My 10-year-old kid came home from school, only glanced at me, said “hi,” and went to his room.
Small sting. Does he not care I returned?
But then… My heart stopped when I heard that.
While cleaning near his room, I heard him on the phone. He talked in a pleasant, eager tone, unlike before.
“Hi, Mom! Sure, school was good today. My grades will be revealed tomorrow! I’m visiting you instead of school, okay? See you tomorrow!
My lungs felt emptied.
Who was he talking to?
I didn’t tell my hubby. No confrontation with my son. Must see for myself.
He departed for “school” the next morning, and I surreptitiously followed.
What did I see? I was unprepared.
After passing the school, he turned onto the next block and stopped in front of a stranger’s house.
Then he knocks.
After a few seconds, the door opened.
To hide, I held my breath and looked out from behind a thick hedge. First, I couldn’t tell who welcomed him. I saw an older woman with wispy gray hair in a bun as the door opened. When she spotted my baby, she lighted up like he made her day. My kid leapt forward and gave her a brief, family-only embrace. I had never seen her before.
My immediate reaction was to go in, ask what was going on, and take my son home. But something urged me to wait. I didn’t want to snoop on my child, but I needed to know why he called this stranger “Mom.” It was absurd. As I approached without rustling bushes, I heard my kid say again. His brilliant, kind voice made me cry.
“Do you want me to help with your garden today? I brought the seeds we harvested!” he told her.
She gently touched his shoulder and murmured, “Yes, dear. I waited for you. “You know I’m weaker now.”
They visited the backyard. My heart raced as I waited. I was shocked that my 10-year-old wanted to skip school to assist a grandma grow flowers. Why did he call her “Mom”? It didn’t make sense. From behind the fence, I cautiously peeked around the corner.
Their modest backyard was largely covered with weeds. A wooden table with seed packets and gardening implements was to the side. My child handed her a tool, then kneeled and dug in the ground.
I listened as they discussed common topics like flower color, weather, and water availability. After a few minutes, Rhea wiped her brow and murmured, “Thank you for stopping by, my sweet boy. I so missed you.”
I saw my son smile up. Mom, I missed you. I desire… I wish I could stay here daily. I have to go to school, he remarked with a humorous eye roll. He laughed briefly. His chuckle was rare at home recently.
Chest constricted. I needed to understand. He called her “Mom,” why? Why did she think that was natural? Their family-like intimacy was obvious. However, I had never met her and we had no local relatives.
Waited till planting was done. He stood up, wiped himself off, and went inside with Rhea. I heard the door close behind them. An unpleasant intuition urged me to introduce myself. I sneaked to the front door, breathed deeply, and knocked.
A few seconds later, the door opened again. This time, my son replied. His eyes widened at my sight. His pale cheeks almost made him leap in alarm.
“Mom?” He stuttered. “What are you doing here?”
Trying to swallow the knot in my throat. “I might ask you the same thing,” I murmured, patting his shoulder. I then looked beyond him to Rhea in the living room, who seemed as surprised.
Her eyes glanced between us uncomfortably. “Oh my goodness,” she said. “You must be his mother. So sorry. I had no idea—
My kid left, and I entered the home, heart racing. It was clean but antique, with mismatched family portraits and handmade blankets on the couch. It smelt like lavender and fresh bread. A comfortable feeling made me feel unexpectedly protected.
Then Rhea said, “Please come in, dear. Take a seat.”
I reluctantly sat on a faded flowered sofa as my kid stood off to the side, head bowed low. I could see he was worried about my reaction. My feelings were mixed, but I tried to be cool. This seemed weird, but there had to be some explanation.
Rhea breathed and clutched her hands. “I don’t even know where to begin,” she said. “I know this is confusing for you.”
“Very,” I said. “All I know is that my son skipped school to come here and called you ‘Mom.’ I want to know why.”
My youngster finally spoke, trembling. He said, “I’m sorry I lied,” without looking at me. It’s just… Visiting Rhea for a bit. She reminded me of your mom, Grandma, who died last year. Rhea said she never had children. She feels lonely. I miss Grandma a lot. Someone who knew that sensation was good to talk to.”
I gazed at him, heartbroken. I remembered his closeness to my mother. I was so grieving when Mom died that I forgot how awful it must have been for him. Lost his granny was like losing a second mother. Rhea seems to have filled that vacuum for him in ways I never knew.
“Why have you been calling her ‘Mom’?” My request was kind.
She looked humiliated. “He called me that one day when I was telling stories about my orphanage. I had no family and wanted to be called ‘Mom’. His initial statement was accidental, but it became our little secret. I hope you didn’t believe I was replacing you. His love for you is everything. But I guess we both got carried away thinking we could console each other.”
My youngster sniffled, crying. “I didn’t mean to hurt you, Mom,” he added. “I enjoyed making Rhea happy. And I needed someone to discuss Grandma. I don’t want to lie, but I was afraid you’d be upset or take her away.”
My stomach knot unraveled. No surprise my son seemed distant. He felt remorse, perplexity, and sadness. Rhea wasn’t attempting to abduct my son. She was a lonely older woman having a special relationship with him.
I breathed deeply, stood up, and hugged my kid. “I’m not angry,” I whispered. I’m glad you’re okay. Still, skipping school is wrong. We need to find a method for you to see Rhea without lying or missing class.”
Nodding, he buried his face in my shoulder. He murmured, “I’m so sorry.
Rhea seemed tearful as I glanced at her. “I appreciate your kindness to my son,” I added. He likes assisting people, and you seem to have influenced him. From now on, I must be informed, okay? He can visit after school or weekends. Things will work out.”
She grinned, relieved. “Of course,” she answered, holding her hands. I’d love to have you visit. Have tea and tell stories. I don’t want him to skip school.”
The tension in the air vanished then. Our conversation expanded on Rhea’s life, my son’s recollections of my mom, and how we might recover together. We invited him to assist Rhea with her garden a few times a week after school and talk about his day. It was a surprise answer, but I could see how important this connection was to them.
My kid put his little hand in mine as we went home. “I’m sorry,” he muttered.
“I know,” I murmured, softly squeezing his hand. I’m sorry too. I should have seen your pain. Maybe we can discuss things next time. I’ll always listen, and maybe we might both meet Rhea.”
He nodded, his eyes filled with relief and thanks.
I, my husband, and our son enjoyed a modest meal that night. My husband was astonished, but once we told him the full tale, he was supportive. He agreed that we should foster their friendship within bounds if Rhea helped our son remember his grandma lovingly and felt less alone.
I kept in touch with Rhea for weeks. My kid and I would sit outdoors and drink lemonade as the sun sank behind her gate when I visited. We decorated the garden with flowers and painted rocks. My son’s face lit up as he talked about his day and how he was doing better at school since he stopped lying. Rhea shared life lessons and the value of meaningful friendships. She never had a family, but she was so pleased to have found us.
I discovered that genuine family isn’t always lineage or documentation. It might be about finding individuals who fill a vacuum in your heart and who can help you recover. Rhea never replaced his grandmother, and my son never replaced me. Instead, this unusual friendship taught us empathy and openness. We healed our hearts by embracing our anxieties.
Life improved afterward. My kid had his moments—he was only ten—but now we had a new buddy who brought out his warmth and reminded me that connecting with people may happen in unexpected ways. It reminded us not to isolate ourselves, especially while busy. The person you need most may be nearby, eager to share a cup of tea and a tale.
I leave you with this: We never know our children’s secret sorrows or hopes. Staying interested, asking questions, and being understanding can fill holes we didn’t realize existed. Going into the unknown might be daunting, but it can lead to life-changing relationships.
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